FAQ – About Swinging Jewelry

WHY SHOULD I WEAR SWINGING JEWELRY?

Wearing the swinger symbol means above all being proud of your way of life. It proofs that you feel being part of a stream of thoughts that rejects imposed dogmas. Wearing the symbol means we refuse to be judged for not following the rules. All including discretion without provocation. The symbol also can help all of us to discretely identify and recognize each other in the swinging lifestyle. We propose wearing swinger jewelry, for example a black ring with the swinger symbol on the right hand at whatever point you're available to meet like minded people in this lifestyle. Wearing swinging wristbands, or anklet or dresses with the swinger symbol "The Swing" will send out a clear and out loud message that you're interested in a swinging adventure with the person you're meeting. Wearing swinging jewelry will suggest that you're an individual from the swinging community and undoubtedly would spice up your style.

HOW DOES THE SWINGING JEWELRY WORK?

Definitely, it's always a good choice to wear your black ring, bracelet, wristband, and anklet if you are out and in the broad daylight to meet different swingers. On the off chance that somebody wearing a black ring, a bracelet or necklace with "The Swing" symbol approaches you, start conversing with them. "I see you're wearing a piece of special jewelry. Perhaps, we are the members of the same club."

DOES IT MATTER WHAT FINGER I WEAR MY BLACK SWINGER RING?

Wear your black ring on any finger except the middle finger. The ring finger is the regular spot for the black ring, yet thumb rings are cool as well. A black ring worn on the middle finger of the right hand is a rarely utilized symbol of asexuality. Therefore, please refrain from wearing the black ring on the middle finger as a mark of respect to this community. Also, it hardly matters on which hand you're wearing your wristbands, bracelets or anklets. Be cool, be classy and be sassy.

DO I HAVE TO WEAR MY SWINGER JEWELRY ALL THE TIME?

No. Just when you need different swingers to recognize you. However, the choice is entirely yours.

WHAT ON THE OFF CHANCE THAT SOMEBODY WITHOUT SWINGER JEWELRY APPROACHES ME AND ASKS ME WHAT THE SWING SYMBOL IMPLIES?

Tell them anything you might want. "Oh, it's nothing. Don't you like my styleell them anything you might want. "Oh, it's nothing. Don't you like my style?" or "It's a "V" for victory"?" or "It's.

​DOES WEARING SWINGER JEWELRY MEAN WE'RE INTO FULL SWAP/SOFT SWAP/BI-MALE/BI-FEMALE, AND SO FORTH?
No. It just indicates that you are a swinger to other fellow swingers. It's an approach to begin a conversation. Who knows, you might encounter and find a compatible and kind spirit.
​DOES WEARING THE BLACK RING MEANS I'M ASEXUAL?

Some in the asexual network wear black rings on their middle fingers as a symbol of their pride. In spite of the fact that it is impossible that asexual individuals will be at indistinguishable get-togethers from swingers, if this is as yet a reason for concern, wear your black ring on some other finger and be sure to have one with the swinger symbol "The Swing".

​DOES WEARING THE BLACK RING OR THE SWINGER WRISTBAND OR THE ANKLET MEAN I'M POLYAMOROUS?
Not really. It implies you are a swinger. You may likewise happen to be polyamorous, but the swinging jewelry isn't intended to be a symbol for polyamory. 
​I DON'T WANT ANYBODY TO KNOW I'M A SWINGER. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Simple. Try not to wear any swinging jewelry, black ring, wristband or anklet. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable regarding this lifestyle.
IS THERE A PARTICULAR RING I SHOULD GET?
No. As long as it’s black, it counts. But if you want to be sure, get one with the swinger symbol.
I AM AFRAID I MIGHT BE HARASSED OR STIGMATIZED FOR WEARING THE BLACK RING OR ANY SWINGING JEWELRY. ISN’T IT DANGEROUS TO EXPOSE YOURSELF BY WEARING SUCH A PUBLIC SIGN OF BEING A SWINGER?
The percentage of swingers in the population across the globe is quite low — under 4% of the population recognize themselves as swingers. [According to 2010 studies by the Kinsey Institute and others, swingers represent two to four percent of married couples with numbers to some extent of more than 4 million individuals in North America. Starting in 2015, a few experts suggest that there might be as many as 15 million Americans swinging all the time.] Therefore, the chances that the quantity of individuals wearing the black ring consistently being so high as to reach to popular consciousness is correspondingly low. However, wearing any swinging jewelry is according to your comfortability. You should possibly wear the swinging jewelry if you want to be recognized as a swinger in any gathering of like-minded people. Try not to wear it under circumstances where you think you might be undermined, stigmatized or threatened.
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